That Special First Meeting....

First meeting and you are already head-over-heels? Love at first sight, but hell you don’t believe in all that shit, huh? You are rational and you really hate being impulsive, don’t you? You are in two minds and you really don’t know whether you want to rush with things. But then you don’t want the fire to blow off just like that, isn’t it? You are desperately waiting for the other person to wave the green flag to take things to the next level, aren’t you? Read on because this is exactly what you have been looking for.

Following are the ways to give you a fair indicator whether the person on the other side is really thinking on your lines:

·   Immediately after that wondrous meeting (the one that you had been waiting for since your bed time story days) while you are still brooding over the person who you thought just launched (Love is rocket science, if you did not know) from your dreams, when you log into your Facebook profile you see a friend request from that special person and you immediately know the other person is just as interested. It’s like that super excited BINGO moment.

    In other words, the person would really take a lot of interest in your social life. He/she would really      like to know a lot more about you. He/she would burn the midnight oil to track you down somehow. And you know you are on the right track.

·   He/she would look out for any possibility (however small it may be) to meet you up again and continue the magic. Any little chance and he/she would grab it like he/she would never let it go.

Get the clue and play along. You too would cherish all the magical moments (They are treasures you would like to store in cool, dry place, maybe).

·   And once you meet up he/she would never let it end as if there is no tomorrow. Let’s go for a coffee would finally turn out to be a let’s end up with a fine glass (or two maybe) of “Sex on the Beach” and those extra succulent grilled prawns.

How does it matter really? Cocktails and prawns taste great anyways.

You should sit back and let things happen. That way you can give yourself the much needed time.

·   You only thought looks could kill? Hell no! He/she isn’t thinking on your lines. Some little glances can cause some serious heart malfunctioning. And he/she wouldn’t mind stealing a hell lot of them.

Those eye contacts would make so much of sparks fly that you would think its Diwali. Every day is Diwali in love and all that shit but you would love to believe it for once, wouldn’t you?

·   Oh! And you thought only credit card bills don’t come to an end, did you? Now you would find out really different things. Like, conversations don’t come to an end. Once you are talking you would keep on doing just that. It’s like you he/she has nothing else to do in this world.

·   And you thought nobody cares! And how you will be proven wrong all along. Your tiniest of words will be heard, minutest of expressions will be noticed, your pint-sized needs will be taken care of.

I know you are not going to complain at all. Who doesn’t want to feel important all the time and bask in the glory of undivided attention? I do and I know everyone else does.

·  Those excuses to come closer. That intentional brief brush of hands, that momentary arm on the shoulders and then a volley of sorry coming across. Silly, really, but then sometimes the silliest of things makes you the happiest of being.
Yeah, like wise men say, “Love isn’t about the biggest of things about the zillion smaller ones”.  I know you are yelling loud in your head, “No, it cannot be love.” But sweetheart, you are trapped (already) like those million butterflies in your stomach.

Sometimes things aren’t that simple. Sometimes you don’t have a clue what’s happening. Sometimes this list stands null and void.

Because after all love as I said my friend is rocket science.